Creating and following a budget can be very hard work. It's so hard, in fact, that most people give up after a few short weeks, or even days. There are all kinds of reasons people give up. Perhaps the most commonly overlooked and easiest to correct has to do with the budgeting worksheet or tools they use.
The key to the budgeting is compromise. The bride will usually prefer all the best accessories and dresses where as the groom will be more financially conscious of the whole process. So, they need to meet somewhere in between to accomplish what they both want. A good rule of thumb is to comprise on quantity not quality. The quality of the wedding is what will be remembered by all. It is very possible to have a beautiful classy wedding on a tight budget, just be careful of how many guests are inviting. Having a budgeting sheet is helpful, so you may want to divide the sheet in categories such as the ones below.