Consider putting yourself back on cash. If you think you shop impulsively because it is so easy to use plastic, try to give yourself a cash allowance every week. You may go over the allowance, but you will have to go to some effort to replenish it. This can be a great way to get a handle on spending.
Accounted for from primarily by the bride's parents Accounted for from primarily the groom's parents Shared amongst both sets of parents Shared amongst the families and the bride and groom Accounted for entirely by the bride and groom Worksheet for Budgeting your Wedding